What it means to be in love with your partner
Love is a beautiful kind of feeling but living with your partner is not exactly the same like everyone believes.
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It is not all about every minute cuddling, kisses or in bed till you guys fall asleep, or love-making like most people understood it. It is not all about waking up together in bed or bringing breakfast in bed. It is not all about a clean home and home-made meal every night.
Loving your partner is all about the little fights about who has to put away the dishes after each meal. It's the screaming and crying because of your hard and busy day yet the laundry still need to be done though you asked him/her many times earlier to help you do it because you are coming back late.
It's the crazy moment when your partner decides to take a poop when you just get inside the shower. It includes falling asleep together on the couch because the day has left both of you very tired to even go to the room. It's waking up hungry and then discovers that all your chocolates, chips and biscuits have been eaten yet you still make a joke about it and just smile without grudges. It's about waking up cold because your partner took all the blanket and sometimes even kick you to the edge of the bed yet you wouldn't bother. It's slamming the door behind you and sometimes harsh words out of anger yet your partner still understands that it wasn't you and forgives without drama. It's the crazy thoughts sometimes "if you actually made the right choice." It's about countless fights about absolutely nothing.
Believe me, it's despite all of the little fights and drama you still can't live a day without him/her. You still miss him/her everyday because deep down you know both of you sincerely loves each other. You know that your smiles and laughs are real not fake. You know both of you can laugh till your stomachs hurt yet you still don't want to stop. You still love fighting about small foods and still don't bother if you guys eat the cheapest food and he doesn't complain about the easiest meal you prepared at night because he knows how tired you might be. You still prefer to stay home and watch Netflix and chill with your partner. You still loving him/her even though they make you insane sometimes.
Moreover, your understanding is topnotch and when you have emotional breakdown, your partner understands and wouldn't mind being on the floor with you just to hold your hands and always reminding you that you will be fine, and you will be cheered up in the shortest while because you believe him/her.
Lastly, being in love with your partner is about counting yourself lucky to have the love that a lot of people are eager to have; yes it's not perfect rather hard but it's amazing and comforting and the best thing you will ever experience.
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