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Narcissism is Real

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Google definition of Narcissism is "the excessive interest in or admiration of oneself and one's physical appearance."  Very Similar to "self love" "self admiration" "self centered" "self praised" NARCISSISM IS REAL Psychologically, it's just being selfish, full of sense of entitlement, always lacks empathy and in a steady need for admiration almost all the time. According to google, it's actually a behavioral disorder which is called NARCISSITIC PERSONALITY DISORDER. Yea, it is seen as a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration which might cause you to have a troubled relationship with your spouse and a lack of empathy for your spouse and other people as well! It is funny that some people might not really know that they are suffering from this personal disorder. It is not a medical condition though and does not need medical attention ...

What it means to be in love with your partner

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Love is a beautiful kind of feeling but living with your partner is not exactly the same like everyone believes. LOVE It is not all about every minute cuddling, kisses or in bed till you guys fall asleep, or love-making like most people understood it. It is not all about waking up together in bed or bringing breakfast in bed. It is not all about a clean home and home-made meal every night.  Loving your partner is all about the little fights about who has to put away the dishes after each meal. It's the screaming and crying because of your hard and busy day yet the laundry still need to be done though you asked him/her many times earlier to help you do it because you are coming back late.  It's the crazy moment when your partner decides to take a poop when you just get inside the shower. It includes falling asleep together on the couch because the day has left both of you very tired to even go to the room. It's waking up hungry and then discovers that all your chocolates, ch...

AKA lost his fiance Nellie

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Anele Tembe popularly known as Nellie, on Sunday fell from a 10th floor of Pepper Club Hotel in Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa. Why she fell is yet to be known but South African police department promised to get to the root of it. Anele Tembe  The rumor had it that she suffered from depression and attempted to commit suicide before. The late Anele loved living a private life. She was the daughter of a popular Durban businessman Moses Tembe. Her father Moses, is the director of the International Conference Centre, co-chairman of the KZN Growth Coalition, and the director of the Mazibuye Foundation. She was a chef and studied at the Jackie Cameron School of Food and Wine for 18 months between 2018 and 2019. She was a stylish woman who loved her family dearly. Their first picture together.       South African rapper Kiernan Forbes who goes with the stage name AKA was spotted in Cape Town with his lover Nellie whom accepted his marriage proposal earlier th...

Steps In Sustaining A Romantic Relationship

 I can simply say that romantic relationship is a type of relationship between two adults that have the intention of being involve in each other's lives intimately and emotionally. Agreeing to be in a romantic relationship means that you have sincerely accepted to have the same level of emotional connection and deep feelings with the person. Once you determine to be beyond that of platonic friendship with someone then it is a step towards intimate relationship or romantic relationship. It is easier to jump to romantic relationship but kind of difficult to sustain it! Being in a romantic relationship is not all about "sex" like many people believe, it goes beyond that. There are many things to consider before being involve in a romantic relationship especially long term one. Steps in sustaining it are: CHOOSING YOUR PARTNER. Don't just settle for any available partner because you are in a hurry to be in a romantic relationship. Once you settle for who you are not conne...