Common Causes of Unfaithfulness!

The dictionary definition of UNFAITHFULNESS is...not faithful; false to duty, obligation, or promises; faithless; disloyal. not sexually faithful to a spouse or lover. not accurate or complete; inexact: an unfaithful translation!!!

I have seen marriages that used to be a good example of a good and faithful partners suddenly dissolved because of, one partner been unfaithful! The main causes of the unfaithfulness in marriages and relationships are below:



THE ISSUE OF DISCUSSING YOUR PROBLEMS

This is a major contributor of unfaithfulness in a relationship! Discussing your problems always gives room to infidelity! In a relationship there must be problem and it's left for both of you to solve it out without any third party! Once you start discussing your problems with friends, colleagues at work, family members or other people then you are on your way to finding another person whom you believe that will give you shoulder to lean on! From giving you a shoulder to lean on then both of you will be involve in illicit affairs!



INTERNET

This can easily influence you! On net you can be communicating with someone whom you haven't seen but might attracted to, just because of few pictures of his/hers! And once you get deep with your discussion you will soon start comparing the online lover with your partner and that might force you to fall out of love and once a woman fell out of love the relationship is as good as dead!



PORN MOVIES

This can as well make a partner to cheat! Porn movies/pictures are always available on net and believe me when you are addicted to it, you will be in demand of sex all the time which might lead you to find the sex outside your home or you might end up masturbating! And when you get too much involve in the act of masturbating you will end up not wanting to get down with your partner all the time he/she want or you might end up expecting a lot from your spouse just like you saw on the porn movies!



LACK OF RESPECT

Any relationship that lacks respect does not last longer! Respect is not all about your partner worshiping you; it's also about you respecting him/her in return! People push their partner to be unfaithful because they don't respect them at all! When you make him/her feel like there is no respect at home he/she might end up being pushed out to someone else who comprehend it better than you!



NOT BEING IN LOVE FOR THE RIGHT REASON

Some people love material things a lot! When you met her/him there was a lot to spend which might made you to be a spendthrift then all of a sudden there is nothing left to spend again!!! When you love don't love him/her because of the house he/she lives in! Or the car he/she drives or buys for you! Or the expensive dresses he/she wears or buys for you! Believe me when account is RED then you will naturally be unfaithful!



HIDING THE FACT THAT YOU ARE NOT SINGLE

When you intentionally hide the fact that you are taken, it might not help you at all! Yes it might be nothing but when someone sees a beautiful lady or handsome guy and he/she was not bold at the first day to tell you that he/she is taken then it might be too hard to stop the person approaching you not to have his/her way with you! They already assumed that you are as single as them so they will stop at nothing until they have their way which will make you to be unfaithful to your partner.


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Comments

Unknown said…
This is great. Just to add to the list, lack of communication, unnecessary comparison and unreasonable expectations from your spouse are good causes of infidelity in a marriage union.
Unknown said…
A nice write up .....keep it up
Unknown said…
This is great, Nnaemeka! Well done

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